The men like being right far more than they like being alive. Their primary emotion is vagina, secondarily booze. Thus, they will only go to war as white knights with a holier-than-thou ideological purpose. The SJW tendency to “always double down” morphs into the white tendency to hold the line against all odds. Contrast this to the fluid, atomized opportunism of sapiens sapiens, and their tendency to rout.
The women like stress more than anything. Nothing matters to them except seeking novel sources of anxiety. Sexually, they are either frigid or sluts, depending on whether they can relax. They can be convinced to bear children if it can be viewed as a personal challenge or self-actualization.