Now’s I have enough money to support myself, I’m starting to look for an IRL waifu for to engage in 3-D degeneracy and pop out some niglets. To this end, I tapped my massive GENIUS and manosphere background to set myself the following curriculum:
Weekly: MM’s Chateau Heartiste boildown podcast (I’m a big believer in reviewing fundamentals)
1. The Rational Male (book)
2. Mystery Method
3. The Art of Seduction
4. The Style Guide
5. Day Bang
6. Married Man Sex Life (book)
Because I’m looking for a conscientious, introverted Christian girl, my focus will be on indirect approaches, day game, and environments where such girls may be found such as:
3. Hardware/specialty stores
4. Family network
5. Accounting classes and departments
My frame couldn’t be tighter because, to be perfectly frank, I’m more interested in finding a free secretary than sex. Genius comes with serious mindfulness issues.
This evening I went to the grocery store, and realized I could start doing some indirect approaches. What I discovered is that, between my complete lack of approach anxiety (i.e. lack of social anxiety) and my unusually high creative drive, I’m very good at generating situational openers. Here are the three I used:
1. Excuse me, I have to buy my little sister something for secret Santa this year, what should I get?
2. What’s your favorite six-dollar wine? I’d go as high as six fifty if necessary. (This was successful with a young 7. I didn’t find her recommendation, so if I’d seen her again I would have accused her of “lying” about its existence to re-engage her and her friend.)
3. Is that color natural? I absolutely must know. (Directed to a fellow ginger.)
All of these have the distinct advantage of being questions about things I genuinely wanted to know. Though this isn’t necessary, I expect it gives the interaction a more genuine flavor than a canned opener, which will be more successful for me because I’m very bad at acting. However if I’m in a tight spot I’ll probably reuse #1, because there’s a large range of possible follow-up questions to use as a hook and the girl’s answer projects a lot about her. These questions also have the advantage of being playful subjects—so if a girl is already attracted or generally in a playful mood, this gives her plausible deniability to have some fun talking to me.
Something else I learned is why it’s so natural for a high-status man to do the false time constraint gambit and then turn around and hook. In the latter example above the ginger girl was an HB3, whereas I’m objectively a 5 but more like a 6 or 7 to feminine, introverted women on account of my novelty-generating mind and high testosterone. (It also helps if the girl is lighter-skinned than me, which this ginger gal was—this doesn’t happen often!) Anyway, I wasn’t interested and she clearly was, because when I started toward the door she followed me (on a plausibly sidelong path) and, when I re-engaged her, she undid her hair and started tossing it. If I’d known what to do in that situation I’d have gone for a number close but I’m only just starting chapter 4 of Mystery Method.
Here’s the thing: I didn’t turn around and re-engage because I wanted this girl’s number. I did it because I felt bad for getting her hopes up and leaving her in the lurch, and I wanted to drop a compliment to make the letdown a little brighter. That patronizing instinct is why it works.
Anyway, I bet I’m going to end up being very good at this. Need to figure out the whole morality of premarital sex thing ahead of time because it’s going to come up sooner rather than later and I’d rather make the decision with my big head.