The tl;dr of yesterday’s effortboast is that women sexually crave the sensation of being dwarfed by someone so physically strong (werewolf fantasy), so influential (billionaire), so morally unconstrained and dedicated to adventure (pirate), so perfectly dedicated to his high-status profession (surgeon), or so persuasive (vampire) that her agency is diminished to nothing in comparison. She exists only at his mercy and has no choices to make, except when a choice is tossed her way like a bone to a dog. Women are not offended by rape—pick a random romance novel off the shelf to dispel that notion—they are offended by rapists because rapists are (almost) uniformly weak men. To be raped by Conan would be traumatizing but acceptable, and she would still love her illegitimate little barbarian sprog. But to be temporarily possessed by a powerless man is an evolutionary ticket to a slow, painful extinction.
A woman scorned is of at least two minds—a woman disappointed (powerless before him, then realizing he’s weak) is a spider on a mission from Hell to devour her erstwhile lover, proving to herself and everyone once and for all that she’s better than that. This dynamic is the motive force behind the #MeToo movement, where women realize they can call in social media air strikes and this makes them more powerful than the men who’d compelled them. The discovery of power to play “Let’s you and the legal system fight” fills her with sudden, overwhelming contempt for any rapist whose crimes she’d otherwise been sitting on for decades. (This is not to diminish the virtue signalling factor, where a woman gets to claim she is so attractive that powerful men are driven to ravish her, but she is also too pure to give into them consensually. But reversal of power is the driving dynamic in this “mass woman scorned” epidemic.) The sin of disappointing a woman is also why it’s dangerous for a man to shoot too high and outkick his coverage.
Yesterday’s post explains why a woman aroused regresses to childish, amoral psychopathy, which in turn explains why she immediately begins fishing for insecurities with shit tests. These insecurities are handles she can use to steer and control him, returning her sense of agency and diminishing her feeling of powerlessness. Happy is the man who shows his wife no weakness when she’s aroused, but jeopardizes himself when she’s comfortable to produce predictable shit tests during their next argument. Example:
Her: “I bet you have a small dick.”
Him: “I’ve been told otherwise.”
Him: “To be honest, it’s just average and I’m a little insecure about it because porn creates unrealistic expectations.”
Her: *Swoons at flipping the script*
(First big freakout)
Her: “I HATE YOU AND YOUR DICK IS ACTUALLY TINY!”
Him: *Smirks at obvious attempt to hurt him*
An application of this unbreakable link between powerlessness and arousal in the modern day, where every girl is pursuing the the heroine’s journey by default, is that it’s preferable to be very strong in the area which she identifies as her “thing”. A girl who identifies as smart wants to be with a guy that’s observably so much smarter that her “thing” is relatively worthless when she’s in his company. If she’s not the smart one in that context, she casts around for her next trait to prove her value. Strength? (No, he’s stronger because he’s a man.) Fortitude of character? (No, he’s got testicles.) Eventually she will become determined to show off her feminine qualities, where she is relatively stronger, to prove her worth to him. A few more examples:
-A party girl wants to be with a guy who’s so good at having fun that she is forced to follow his lead.
-A creative girl wants to be with a guy who’s so creative that she’s living in his shadow.
-A slut wants to be with a guy who’s had so many sexual partners that he doesn’t even notice her shit tests.
This is why it’s not surprising that Koanic’s wife is a lawyer, because he’s overwhelmingly superior in analytical verbal IQ, argumentative personality, and grit. And it’s not surprising that I do best with semi-intelligent, highly creative chicks. So like attracts like, provided it’s moreso.