Aroused by powerlessness, expanded

The tl;dr of yesterday’s effortboast is that women sexually crave the sensation of being dwarfed by someone so physically strong (werewolf fantasy), so influential (billionaire), so morally unconstrained and dedicated to adventure (pirate), so perfectly dedicated to his high-status profession (surgeon), or so persuasive (vampire) that her agency is diminished to nothing in comparison. She exists only at his mercy and has no choices to make, except when a choice is tossed her way like a bone to a dog. Women are not offended by rape—pick a random romance novel off the shelf to dispel that notion—they are offended by rapists because rapists are (almost) uniformly weak men. To be raped by Conan would be traumatizing but acceptable, and she would still love her illegitimate little barbarian sprog. But to be temporarily possessed by a powerless man is an evolutionary ticket to a slow, painful extinction.

A woman scorned is of at least two minds—a woman disappointed (powerless before him, then realizing he’s weak) is a spider on a mission from Hell to devour her erstwhile lover, proving to herself and everyone once and for all that she’s better than that. This dynamic is the motive force behind the #MeToo movement, where women realize they can call in social media air strikes and this makes them more powerful than the men who’d compelled them. The discovery of power to play “Let’s you and the legal system fight” fills her with sudden, overwhelming contempt for any rapist whose crimes she’d otherwise been sitting on for decades. (This is not to diminish the virtue signalling factor, where a woman gets to claim she is so attractive that powerful men are driven to ravish her, but she is also too pure to give into them consensually. But reversal of power is the driving dynamic in this “mass woman scorned” epidemic.) The sin of disappointing a woman is also why it’s dangerous for a man to shoot too high and outkick his coverage.

Yesterday’s post explains why a woman aroused regresses to childish, amoral psychopathy, which in turn explains why she immediately begins fishing for insecurities with shit tests. These insecurities are handles she can use to steer and control him, returning her sense of agency and diminishing her feeling of powerlessness. Happy is the man who shows his wife no weakness when she’s aroused, but jeopardizes himself when she’s comfortable to produce predictable shit tests during their next argument. Example:

(Attraction stage)
Her: “I bet you have a small dick.”
Him: “I’ve been told otherwise.”

(Comfort stage)
Him: “To be honest, it’s just average and I’m a little insecure about it because porn creates unrealistic expectations.”
Her: *Swoons at flipping the script*

(First big freakout)
Her: “I HATE YOU AND YOUR DICK IS ACTUALLY TINY!”
Him: *Smirks at obvious attempt to hurt him*

An application of this unbreakable link between powerlessness and arousal in the modern day, where every girl is pursuing the the heroine’s journey by default, is that it’s preferable to be very strong in the area which she identifies as her “thing”. A girl who identifies as smart wants to be with a guy that’s observably so much smarter that her “thing” is relatively worthless when she’s in his company. If she’s not the smart one in that context, she casts around for her next trait to prove her value. Strength? (No, he’s stronger because he’s a man.) Fortitude of character? (No, he’s got testicles.) Eventually she will become determined to show off her feminine qualities, where she is relatively stronger, to prove her worth to him. A few more examples:

-A party girl wants to be with a guy who’s so good at having fun that she is forced to follow his lead.
-A creative girl wants to be with a guy who’s so creative that she’s living in his shadow.
-A slut wants to be with a guy who’s had so many sexual partners that he doesn’t even notice her shit tests.

This is why it’s not surprising that Koanic’s wife is a lawyer, because he’s overwhelmingly superior in analytical verbal IQ, argumentative personality, and grit. And it’s not surprising that I do best with semi-intelligent, highly creative chicks. So like attracts like, provided it’s moreso.

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17 Responses to Aroused by powerlessness, expanded

  1. Koanic says:

    Compatible sense of humor was the key. She knew when I was making fun of her.

  2. Koanic says:

    > Your dick is tiny!

    The better to split you with my sons’ huge skulls, my dear.

    • Koanic says:

      > Your dick is tiny!

      Also, never actually say that. She has no clue and it feels huge to her. And if she does have a clue, showing any weakness to a slut is fatal.
      Be vulnerable by showing you care about her, not showing you’re weak. Don’t be weak, and don’t show it if you are.

      • crazy tm says:

        I don’t have an 8 inch or 10 inch dick, every woman I’ve slept with says it’s at least 8 inches, when really I’m only just above average in length. I get a giggle every time from that.

    • kensuimo says:

      (Unironically)

  3. Aton says:

    Couldn’t read the effortpost but got value out of this one.

    This is a powerful line that sums everything up nicely:

    “Women are not offended by rape—pick a random romance novel off the shelf to dispel that notion—they are offended by rapists because rapists are (almost) uniformly weak men.”

    As for shittests, I think they only happen when a woman is unsure of your power or when she wants to feel power she already suspect. I’d imagine a true alpha doesn’t get shittested too often.

    • Aeoli Pera says:

      >This is a powerful line that sums everything up nicely:
      >“Women are not offended by rape—pick a random romance novel off the shelf to dispel that notion—they are offended by rapists because rapists are (almost) uniformly weak men.”

      Trump said it better. An Alpha can grab them by the pussy, he can do whatever he wants.

      >As for shittests, I think they only happen when a woman is unsure of your power or when she wants to feel power she already suspect. I’d imagine a true alpha doesn’t get shittested too often.

      Women shit test when they want to feel fmear. So yes, if she’s already running a high baseline anxiety most of the time (of infidelity, humiliation, etc.) then she won’t need to shit test.

  4. Egyptian says:

    Just commenting to see if I still have the permission to do so. Following everything closely.

    Egyptian

  5. crazy tm says:

    I’m predominately a werewolf like you aeoli. :) Da women are wary, but once you bed them, they always want more, women will chase that feeling you gave them, some call it sex magic. When you find your wife she’ll be the same. When you bed women or your wife, use your intuition, when you feel uncomfortable or pain, she feels it to, so you know to adjust. That way when she is comfortable of your dominance and you know it intuitively you can let your beast out. The beast makes all the difference.

    Funny thing yesterday I shaved my head bold, left my bread down to my chest around where my nipples are. Took 12 months to grow out, it’s weird the Muslim men around always compliment me, and ask if I use beard oil. One even said I look majestic like a lion. hahaha I just say I’m of Scottish blood, hinting at my crusader heritage.

    Today I go out to take care of bank business and buy a printer cable for the missus, two women flirt with me, who have defacto partners chat me up, in the old days I would of gotten number, they looked like they would of given them eagerly. One said I had beautiful skin, that I look 26 years old, I’m 37, and wanted to touch my beard. The other was British so automatic kinship. Both chicks were 22 years old.

    I was rejected a lot when young, but never give up, persistence pays off, a lesson my older step brother gave me.

  6. Ø says:

    Hold a girl by the hand when you’re beside her and you’ll get a girlfriend. Hold a girl by the throat when you’re inside of her and you’ll get a proselyte.

    #BrutalButTrueThings

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