The church has an honesty problem. No, that’s too gentle. The church is suffering a deep-seated, pathological dishonesty that is ruining the West. And by this I don’t mean “everybody with a different doctrine than me is an unbelieving serpent destined for Hell”, which was probably your first reaction—I imagine your cortisol spiking a little in preparation for a fight. I mean something much more fundamental: the church belongs the poor in spirit, the poor in spirit are what we call “normies”, and normies have a deep-seated honesty problem. It would be the work of several lifetimes to even get tiny fractions of the church to admit it has a problem, which is part of why I’m building a little army. I’ll demonstrate this briefly for those of you with ears to hear.
I went to a group for singles in their thirties the other day, and I’ll be damned if I ever saw a sadder sight. The men ranged from Omega to low Delta and the women ranged from obese to single mothers to road-worn to married (?).
That began to change with the 2009 publication of a study in the Journal of Sexual Medicine. Using data from the National Survey of Family Growth, the researchers tracked sexual abstinence among 2,469 men and 5,120 women age 25 to 45, and found that 122 of the men (5 percent) and 104 of the women (2 percent) said they’d never had partner sex. Now some abstinence might be voluntary, Catholic priests and nuns, or others who affirmatively opt for celibacy. But it’s safe to say that most–probably the vast majority–of older virginity is involuntary. I interviewed one 47-year-old virgin man who called it “my shame, my terrible handicap.”
The study found two significant associations with older virginity: regular attendance at religious services and abstinence from alcohol. However, in my interviews with older virgins and with the therapists who counsel them, those factors appear much less important than profound shyness, social awkwardness, and general discomfort with the opposite sex and the whole idea of physical intimacy with another person.
Are There Really 40-Year-Old Virgins?
Now, the people in this singles group are there specifically to find love and marriage and have kids, in a Christ-approved way. They’re very forthright about this in private. Many of them are salvageable. Fat girls can lose weight and become very pretty (often retaining enlarged breasts), which is most of the reason why an HB5 in the 1950s would be considered an HB8 today. Repentant Omegas can be sent to the gym, fed paleo, and trained out of their disqualifying behaviors to become high Deltas. (There are of course a couple of exceptions—there’s a very gentle older guy who’s clearly dealing with some serious baggage. He will patiently but firmly push away people trying to hug him, smile, and offer a fist bump instead.)
One of the fat girls, whom I’d met before, clearly has a thing for me. Now, I have a strong desire to say the most loving thing anyone has ever told this gal: the price of a first date is to lose twenty pounds, and the price of a third date is another ten pounds. It would be possible, if not PC, to say this to her at a restaurant/bar, online, or through friends. But if I pulled that stunt in church? Forget excommunication, they might literally crucify me. You’d get an attenuated response for suggesting single men, already praying for godly women to waltz into their lives, ought to lift weights so they aren’t disgusting to their future wives. HOW DARE YOU suggest Christians should even notice such worldly values as slimness and muscles, much less use?
In private, I find girls and women are more amenable to harsh realities. As an experiment, I just handed a printed version of the other most important graph in the world to a multi-generational group of women at the coffee shop I’m sitting in now. The grandma, mother, and daughter all said they’re churchgoing Christians, and they all agreed it’s very sad and mentioned that their church is also dying because “it’s all old people now”. Men, on the other hand, respond on a spectrum from fascinated silence to combative denial. I showed this to my Bible study leader during a discussion about how frustrating it is to meet girls in the church, and he immediately dismissed it as lies by nonbelievers. The only guy in the group with a girlfriend (a very sweet fiancee who’s a drop-dead HB8, btw) had to talk him down from his sanctimonious perch.
The libertarian-leaning Christians who are too cool for church are even worse. Their only response to anything is to ragequit and find a new church. Fools and hypocrites, how are you different from the 3rd-world immigrants and Californian refugees you denounce? Clean up the planks littering the pews of your own church before you go looking for spotless churches to poison with your weakness. Even worse are those I think of as the “three percenters”, who’d rather cull the Deltas and restrict all reproduction to high-functioning, right-wing, polygamous SMV 10 Alphas. What a bunch of worthless cucks! No wonder right-wing politics is all chiefs and no indians, their policy of genociding an entire generation of brainwashed normies who “just don’t get it” is not even a shade removed from the Jews. Yes, I agree they’re brainwashed. So brainwash them again, with the truth this time! The enemy has shown you that’s what works on them, and yet you’re sitting on your thumbs diddling your prostate waiting for Jesus to bring Armegeddon on your nation. You useless fucking cucks! Get your heart in order before God blots your name out of the Book of Life.
The church has an honesty problem, and that’s why the West has a sex problem. Have we become too holy to take a reality check? I believe the answer is no, there will be a remnant, and that’s why I act like I’m on a mission from God. DO NOT get in my way.